by Dee22 » Wed Feb 09, 2005 11:24 am
[QUOTE=horsemad!]I believe you’ll know in your heart what is right for you Chenders. There will come a time when the right decision will be very clear in your mind.
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I totally agree! When I decided to sell Mopar, the 'for sure' decision came out of the blue. I went to dinner with my, at the time, coaches groom/friend. We were sitting there eating burgers and out it came "I think I should sell Mopar, what do you think?"... just like that... I'd been thinking it over in my head for a bit (like you) but hadn't come to a decision and hadn't said anything to anyone... I hadn't even actually decided when that question/decision popped out of my mouth. And that was it... we talked about it, I choked back tears, he said he thought it was a wise decision... I mentioned it to my coach, he said "I was wondering when you would finally decide to do this", we discussed a good price to ask and up his ad went. I had hoped it wouldn't take so long to sell him, which, really it only took 4 months to sell him and an extra month after that for him to leave. I just *knew* it was time, and knew it was the right choice and was something that had to be done. Sure I flip flopped about it over the next months while I was showing him. I had my coach show him because I couldn't bring myself to do it... everytime someone came to see him my nerves were frayed <IMG src="smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> But in the end I KNOW I did the right thing. Eja, as we've talked about before... is the love of my life and I couldn't have asked for a better partner... she has her 'moments' but what horse doesn't?
I agree with Horsemad! You'll just know when it's right <IMG src="smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0">
And Chenders, honestly you can get a decent price for Dali, just decide on a price, allow a little room for negotiation and stick to that. Eventually the right person will come along, with the right amount of riding experience. I got $500 less than my asking price for Mopar in US funds which turned out to be almost exactly what I was originally asking in Canadian funds because the exchange rate had changed so much between Feb. and May and I hadn't changed my ad.
I also think something a bit older would be better for you. I didn't really want a baby but I found this GORGEOUS two year old that was exactly what I wanted in a horse... and he was aparantly so calm and quiet... but I knew from Mopar that young horses change and go through 'moments' and that was what brooke me the first time 'round, the seller was willing to give him to me for what I could offer and that was even before I went to see him. In the end, it was Kaleena (thanks kaleena!) who talked some sense into me and advised me against buying another baby, I needed something older and not so green to instill some confidence back into me.
You may have to settle for something that needs a 'bit' of work for a lower price but you can still get a horse that needs some work and still feel confident on it. Eja for instance, needs work but I feel confident on her and safe. I can hack her, ride her outdoors, inside, pretty much do anything with her... and still learn myself. It takes a while to find the right one, but when you do, it's all worth it!! <IMG src="smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"> Eja is almost 14 and I'm so glad I went for an older horse rather than a youngster!<edited><editID>Dee22</editID><editDate>38392.4774189815</editDate></edited>