Life does go on. and just had a final exam

by **Kobau** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 10:48 am

Ok, well other than maybe a few of you that i talk to outside of here,#ed_op#br#ed_cl#it wasn't known that my bf of the last 1.5 yrs and i had ended the#ed_op#br#ed_cl#relationship at the beginning of sept. I was a mess for awhile, and#ed_op#br#ed_cl#along with school that was part of why i#ed_op#br#ed_cl#wasn't#ed_op#br#ed_cl#on here much dealing with it all. Thanks to those, like Bri that were#ed_op#br#ed_cl#there for me to cry to etc and to be there as i got over it all. It did#ed_op#br#ed_cl#take a while for me to heal etc, but i can say that i am healed and#ed_op#br#ed_cl#very ready to move on. You will be happy to know that Paul and i are#ed_op#br#ed_cl#still friends, we are both good with that. And i've come to the#ed_op#br#ed_cl#realisation that while i will always love the guy, it is as a friend#ed_op#br#ed_cl#and in retrospect this break is something that should have happened#ed_op#br#ed_cl#long ago.#ed_op#br#ed_cl##ed_op#br#ed_cl#and as a really really good note.... i got asked out#ed_op#br#ed_cl#by a really cute canadian guy, and acceptted.. the date will haveto#ed_op#br#ed_cl#wait till after my final on the 26th and showing a horse to a buyer on#ed_op#br#ed_cl#the 29th... but still #ed_op#img src="richedit/smileys//happy.gif"#ed_cl#! so yup life has gone on and it is looking pretty dang good! school and everything else seems to be flowing...

by **Ruth** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 10:53 am

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Sorry to hear that Kobau, glad that things are looking up for you though, and that you are moving on!#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **xena_n_joss** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 11:43 am

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Aww, Kobau, that is really too bad, Im glad that you made it through though! Sometimes people just arnt meant to be, its good that you two are still able to be friends with each other. #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl# #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Are you from america Kobau? Im not getting why you said canadian guy... were mostly all canadian here?? lol#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **Ruth** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 12:37 pm

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Kobau is Canadian but goes to school in the US - the ex is American. See, I remember stuff sometimes!#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **zooka** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 12:44 pm

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#wow Kobau glad to hear things are turning around for you, sorry to hear you had such a rough time though!#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **Kobau** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 1:05 pm

Yup Ruth you have a good memory!#ed_op#img src="richedit/smileys//smiley20.gif"#ed_cl##ed_op#br#ed_cl#
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Things are working out and like you said Xena, some ppl aren't meant to
be.. *shrugs* but actually i'm pretty happy bout it all now..#ed_op#img style="cursor: pointer;" onclick="InsertImage('/richedit/smileys/cool.gif');" onmouseover="this.style.backgroundColor='#C6D3EF';this.style.border='1px solid #3169C6'; " onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor=''; this.style.border=''" src="richedit/smileys/cool.gif" align="middle"#ed_cl#

by **Lix** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 1:13 pm

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Kobau - sorry to hear about it but I'm very glad things are looking up for you!#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl# #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#It's great that you are feeling this is for the best!  Surely it is!  And I'm glad things are still friendly and not too stressful!  Who knows, now that the way is open, the "right guy" might just have that chance to finally find you. ;)#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **Gemina** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 3:18 pm

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Glad to hear that after a hard time things are going better for you, Kobau. Hope the Canadian lad is a good fit but you are making him wait for a date. LOL Horses always come first with us, don't they?#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **Elizabeth** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 5:57 pm

I'm glad that things are looking up for you after being bleak for a while. I hope that the date is wonderful.

by **rubberman** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 8:43 pm

Kobau, sorry to hear about the break up but I am glad that you were
able to work your way through it and that you are still friends. 
You may have better luck with dating a Canadian because wasn't the
young man that you had a car accident with also an American?  The
right guy is bound to come along sooner or later just put on that nice
little black dress (or a similar one) that you once wore in your avatar
picture. #ed_op#img src="http://forums.equestrianconnection.com/richedit/smileys//smiley2.gif"#ed_cl#  Just go out and enjoy yourself love will come along in due course.

by **Kobau** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 10:10 pm

R'man... you remember that dress#ed_op#img src="richedit/smileys//shocked.gif"#ed_cl#!! wow.... and actually i have an even better dress now.. black and white, strapless and fits just oh so nice!#ed_op#img src="richedit/smileys//smiley14.gif"#ed_cl##ed_op#br#ed_cl#
Yup, i'm kinda glad to be going on a date with one of our good CND
boys. I dated americans because of where i am, but i've found that at
least here, they don't mix right with my personality.#ed_op#br#ed_cl#
The guy that asked me out, called last night just to say hi and see how
i was doing. Said he figured i could use a study break, and just wanted
to talk more with me...(insert the awweee sound #ed_op#img src="richedit/smileys//smiley2.gif"#ed_cl#)
Yes he is havign to wait. and he seems to understand that well. Said he
realises i have to finish my test and show a horse first, but he is
looking forward to a chance to take me out for dinner...#ed_op#img src="richedit/smileys//smiley9.gif"#ed_cl##ed_op#br#ed_cl#
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The best thing is that i'm happy, relaxed and ready to carry on with life, dating, school and all that !#ed_op#br#ed_cl#
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by **dazzling** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 10:28 pm

Congrats Kobau.  Glad to hear that things are on the upswing.#ed_op#br#ed_cl#
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As for those dang Americans...well, they can be very, um...abrasive.  *looks pointedly at hubby*  #ed_op#img src="richedit/smileys/Teasing/1.gif"#ed_cl#

by **moongirl** » Sat Oct 22, 2005 11:02 pm

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#I am glad to hear that you are doing well, girl.  I think of you now and then and wonder how life is going for ya.  You are a trooper and things will always work out for you, because you will make them!  #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl# #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Now about that new guy...

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by ***Giddy Up*** » Sun Oct 23, 2005 12:09 am

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Good to hear that you are doing well- it's good that you have learned and accepted that you guys just weren't meant to be.#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl# #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#ooo, that canadian boy sounds nice! He ALREADY accepts your horses? I'd say he's got a pretty good shot at staying around because of that fact alone#ed_op#IMG src="http://forums.equestrianconnection.com/richedit/smileys//smiley2.gif"#ed_cl#. He sounds very sweet. Are you going to wear that new dress out to dinner? #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **pmc** » Sun Oct 23, 2005 8:03 am

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Kobau - huggs and a high five at the same time! #ed_op#IMG src="http://forums.equestrianconnection.com/richedit/smileys//smiley20.gif"#ed_cl##ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **Kobau** » Sun Oct 23, 2005 3:01 pm

lol GU, yup already accepts that horses are key, says if when
competition season roles around the only wy to see me is at a show,
he'll just have to become a damn good groom( can ya picture my jaw
dropping at that comment!!) So yup he is a guy that just may have a
chance of sticking around!#ed_op#br#ed_cl#
Yup that dress is getting worn, He wants to take me out for a really
nice dinner after my final, something about treating me like a queen;)
he is earning points pretty steadily! #ed_op#br#ed_cl#
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Paul and i are on good terms so it makes it all nicce to. But i am
happier since i  faced the knowledge that paul and i were meant to
be friends.#ed_op#br#ed_cl#
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by **Eileen** » Sun Oct 23, 2005 11:00 pm

#ed_op#TABLE id=HB_Mail_Container height="100%" cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="100%" border=0 UNSELECTABLE="on"#ed_cl##ed_op#TBODY#ed_cl##ed_op#TR height="100%" UNSELECTABLE="on" width="100%"#ed_cl##ed_op#TD id=HB_Focus_Element vAlign=top width="100%" background="" height=250 UNSELECTABLE="off"#ed_cl#Sorry for being kind of late on responding to your post K....I just got home here and saw your message.  Sorry that things did not work out with you and Paul, but you seem to have that all under control now.   For sure if it is not meant to be ...then it is not meant to be.  And yeah for the Canadian guy....way to go K.  He sounds like an understanding kind of guy.  Hope it all works out for ya....but if not, oh well, at least you get to wear "that dress" ...lol  #ed_op#DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#/TD#ed_cl##ed_op#/TR#ed_cl##ed_op#TR UNSELECTABLE="on" hb_tag="1"#ed_cl##ed_op#TD style="FONT-SIZE: 1pt" height=1 UNSELECTABLE="on"#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV id=hotbar_promo#ed_cl##ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#/TD#ed_cl##ed_op#/TR#ed_cl##ed_op#/TBODY#ed_cl##ed_op#/TABLE#ed_cl#

by **graciespook** » Mon Oct 24, 2005 7:59 am

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#I'm glad things are working out. Sometimes we don't see how it should be until after the fact, but good luck!

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by **jax** » Mon Oct 24, 2005 8:03 am

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Sorry it sucked for a while, but so glad to hear that you are happy again.  Good news! #ed_op#IMG src="http://forums.equestrianconnection.com/richedit/smileys/Happy/21.gif"#ed_cl##ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

by **babytigger** » Mon Oct 24, 2005 8:15 am

#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#well Kobau, glad to hear things seem to have worked themselves out for you....sounds like you're on a good path now!!#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#

Life does go on. and just had a final exam

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