by Emerald » Wed Sep 21, 2005 4:23 pm
#ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Hi Gracie,#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#I know what you mean , everything seems to be going wrong, Life seemed to be OK and then a series of events crash into you.#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Spouse gets forced into early retirement , has to fight for settlement. Has had several menial jobs which he has quite for some reason or other#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Downsizing, my job of $40K was eliminated, takes me 1.5Yrs to find another job. #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Crash, I rolled our truck in a freezing rain incident, it was a complete write off but I walked away. Truck in my name, I could not afford collision, so $13,000. gone, #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#But I am Alive. #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#I have some pretty serious money problems myself, and I am not sure what the next couple of months will bring as my common law of the last 7 years , the last time he spoke to me was months ago, only to tell me he wants to sell the house, split up, He is Depressed, he hates the world, he hates everyone except his son and his mother, I suspected it was only a matter of time before I was on his hate list. #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#It will only make him happy to destroy my life which ever way he can. It is not I who has ruined his life as he likes to accuse me of, I have friends, many thru my love of horses. #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Try to think of the good things, and cherish life today. #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#Try to find Someone to listen and talk it out with. #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#My thing is, I know my own life and see people differently, because I know life affects us all. Perhaps I try to read too much in someone's eyes when I look into them, people have different problems. #ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl##ed_op#DIV#ed_cl#You are not alone , A friend is near.#ed_op#/DIV#ed_cl#